documenting the BL fan experience

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25, SHE/HER, GUAM

25, SHE/HER, GUAM

Acquiring BL can be complicated, because some older BL is hard to find when you want to buy it in English. Sometimes it can be very pricey as well. But at the same time these authors deserve money for their work that they have put…

29, SHE/HER, UAE

29, SHE/HER, UAE

Getting content is a dilemma because if hadn’t pirated BL would not have existed. I would have never come across it online. It is hard for me to find it legally. I have a Futekiya account and Crunchyroll and Netflix, but the selections are very…

26, SHE/THEY, MEXICO

26, SHE/THEY, MEXICO

Spanish fandom is awesome. Like, there’s antis, sure, but there’s nothing like it compared to the North American/English fandom, because we’re still in the mindset of “don’t like, don’t read”. I do have friends from other Hispanic countries and they’re all supportive, even if they don’t like some kind of content I do like (for example, very dark fiction). 

Mexican fandom is very good, too, because they don’t care what you ship if it’s not harmless to real people.

— 26, She/They, Mexico

34, SHE/HER, DOMINICAN REPUBLIC

34, SHE/HER, DOMINICAN REPUBLIC

The BL fandom experience is directly intertwined with my own queer identity discovery experience, I can’t extricate one from the other, it’s how I found community, love and confidence within the LGBTQ+ community, and it’s how I continue to engage my own sexual expression and…

27, HE/HIM, NEW ZEALAND

27, HE/HIM, NEW ZEALAND

People saying I transitioned to become a gay man like the comics was a big reason I fell out with the community in my late teens/early 20s. It was only recently that I’ve been more comfortable with interacting with fandom again. BL helped me figure…

28, SHE/THEY, ARGENTINA

28, SHE/THEY, ARGENTINA

Around the beginning, fandom was mostly my friends, the other people in the local anime forum/community, and some people on Deviantart. Social media didn’t exist yet. Instead of drawing for strangers on the internet, I filled up pages of drawings in my notebooks and brought it to the weekend meetings to show my friends. Despite differences among the guys in the local community, everyone mostly respected each other’s preferences, I guess.

The internet was already a thing, but since it was pre-social media, communities used to be hosted in forums. In the case of our local anime community, despite meeting through a forum, the weekly meetings to just spend a nice time with everyone in a park while talking about games and manga and playing with cards, were the most important part of the dynamics.

— 28, She/They, Argentina

27, SHE/HER, BANGLADESH

27, SHE/HER, BANGLADESH

Getting officially translated BL here is impossible, pirated is the only way. But thanks to some online sites I can pay for some webtoons. — 27, She/Her, Bangladesh

25, THEY/THEM, VIETNAM

25, THEY/THEM, VIETNAM

Everyone has been crazy about danmei for a long, long time. Sometimes it feels like people prefer danmei to Japanese BL here. They are also very vocal about LGBTQ rights, although the fujoshi phenomenon does come up with reference to younger fans. That being said,…

28, SHE/THEY, USA

28, SHE/THEY, USA

I would not have been exposed to the content that made me love BL so much if it weren’t for my easy internet access even at age 12. The largest difference in the way the internet has affected BL from the early 2000s to now is the availability of manga online. I used to buy physical BL manga from an incredibly limited selection in the store. Now websites like Lezhin have caused a huge boom in BL titles and seen BL become more international in subject and scope.

— 28, She/They, USA

34, THEY/THEM, USA

34, THEY/THEM, USA

I think of BL like a big mirror. BL content in order to be popular at the time of its creation is going to mirror society at that same time. No one in non-Japanese BL fan spaces ever considers when the series was created. Problematic…